Second Review Getting worse. FL will not follow its published rules and proceedures for executing a "meeting activity" between a guy and a gal clears the way for exchanging contact information. The proceedure is a bit complex as FL uses a very strict inturruption of the IMBRA Guidelines. However they will not follow their own published proceedure either due to incompetence or deliberately stalling the timing of the "meet me" The result of screwing things up is more revenue emails. Their system is based on charges for emails. Be sure to not shake hands with them without counting you fingers afterwards. They don't answer customer service emails or phone calls either!

SOMETHING JUST ISN'T RIGHT.WITH FOREIGNLADIES.COM FIRST OFF, ME: 33, HANDSOME, PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE, FINANCIALLY STABLE, STREET SMART AND HIGHLY EDUCATED (MASTERS DEGREE). I FELT THAT MANY FOREIGN WOMAN TEND TO HAVE BETTER VALUES AND MORALS AS COMPARED TO AMERICAN WOMEN. THUS, MY SEARCH FOR TRUE LOVE ON FOREIGNLADIES.COM BEGINS. SO I THOUGHT! DON'T BE LIKE ME.....OUT OVER $3,700 ON FOREIGNLADIES.COM. ALL LETTERS SHARED THE SAME FORMAT, BUT CERTAIN WORDS, PHRASES AND SENTENCES ARE SUBSTITUTED. WINKS ARE BULL S++T. PICTURES ARE A LITTLE TOO PERFECT IN MOST CASES. IN 48 DAYS I HAD 4,3++ LETTERS FROM WOMEN IN UKRAINE & RUSSIA (THIS IS WHAT I SIGNED UP TO RECEIVE, AFTER 30 DAYS, I STARTED TO GET VERY SEXUAL LETTERS FROM WOMAN IN CHINA......NOT MY THING, NOR DID I SIGN UP FOR THIS). LONG STORY SHORT.......AFTER 25 OR SO EXCHANGED LETTERS ($7.50 TO READ EACH LETTER/$7.50 TO WRITE HER A LETTER.....REMEMBER, IT IS FREE, I REPEAT "FREE" FOR THESE SUPPOSED WOMEN) WITH 1 SPECIFIC WOMAN I SETTLED ON. I RANDOMLY MENTION "HOW ABOUT A PHONE CALL?" QUESTION WAS NEVER ANSWERED IN THE NEXT SEVERAL LETTERS EVEN THOUGH I HAD IMPLIED THAT I WOULD LIKE TO TALK WITH HER ON THE PHONE SEVERAL TIMES OVER. SHE WENT ON TO TALK ABOUT HOW SHE WAS THINKING ABOUT ME ETC......THEN JUST STARTS ASKING ME RANDOM QUESTIONS ABOUT "IF I HAD A MILLION DOLLARS, HOW WOULD I SPEND IT," "WHAT IS THE WEATHER LIKE IN THE USA (SHE SAID SHE LIVED IN CANADA, UNLESS SHE LIVES IN A CLOSET I DON'T KNOW WHY SHE ACTED AS IF I WAS ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE PLANET) AND SMALL RANDOM CHIT-CHAT THAT REALLY DIDN'T MAKE A LICK OF SENSE. SHE ALWAYS SAID "CAN'T WAIT FOR YOUR RESPONSE." I HAD ALSO MENTIONED FLYING HER OUT HERE TO THE ROCKIES TO VISIT....NO REAL ANSWERS. JUST RANDOMS " I CAN'T WAIT TO KISS YOU," AND MEANINGLESS BANTER. I MENTION VISITING HER IN CANADA, NO ANSWER. SO THEN I STARTED TO NOT EVEN ANSWER THE QUESTIONS THAT WERE ASKED IN THE LETTERS. I JUST STARTED TO RAMBLE ON ABOUT THE STOCK MARKET, INVESTMENTS THAT I WAS MAKING FOR THE WEEK AND SKY DIVING TRIPS I WAS TAKING. BAM..... NOW, THE LETTERS DIDN'T EVEN MENTION THE FACT THAT I WAS NOT ANSWERING ANY QUESTIONS FROM THE PREVIOUS LETTERS. SO FOR 2 MORE LETTERS I JUST STARTED TO COMPLAIN IN THE ACTUAL LETTERS THAT THE SITE IS AUTOMATED.....THAT SHE IS NOT REAL AND THAT MOST LIKELY IF IT WAS SOMEONE ANSWERING MY LETTERS IT WAS NOT HER. (I QUOTE "HOW ABOUT THEM YANKEES?") THAT'S ALL I WROTE IN MY LAST LETTER. THE RESPONSE........"NON-SENSE QUESTIONS AND HER DISCUSSING HOW MUCH SHE MISSES ME.....BLAH BLAH BLAH. THE LAST 2 LETTERS I GOT WERE PART REPEATS OF THE FIRST LETTERS I EVER GOT, JUST RE-ARRANGED IN A DIFFERENT FORMAT. WITH MY HOPE AND $3,700 GONE, IT HIT ME........I GOT HUSTLED! CUSTOMER SERVICE SAYS THEY ARE BASED IN ARIZONA, GOOD LUCK NOT GETTING A VERY BROKEN ENGLISH RESPONSE TO COMPLAINTS OR QUESTIONS 1-2 WEEKS LATER......MAYBE, PHONE # IS USUALLY DISCONNECTED AND BBB DOES'NT EVEN ACCREDIT THEM. UGH.......YOU LIVE AND YOU LEARN.

Patience is the key! I've seen lots of negative reviews for this site, in spite of that I've gone ahead and tried it out. I can tell you from personal experience that most of the women I've talked to are legitimate and we've had very involved, in-depth conversations and I've also, through some research been able to find facebooks/twitters for these girls, they are not made up. The key to using this site is to have patience! Also keep in mind that you do not need to write a girl even once to go on one of the tours or to arrange a club visit and be successful, which is what I did. If you're not really serious about going over to Russia/Asia/Latin America, and just want to flirt with these girls you can do that for free on another dating website. AFA customer service in Arizona has been amazing and has answered all of my questions either via email or over the phone. As far as the types of emails I've gotten, you have to understand that some of these girls, although attractive by our standards, probably haven't had much success garnering the attention of many men on the site, much less managing to get a visit. Occasionally they do try to use their sexuality to appeal to western men but a lot of that has to do with how they view men in their own culture. Their situations, especially those that have children, aren't always the best. They just want to improve their situation and find the right man for them. My final judgement is that I would recommend this site with two caveats, 1. You should be sure that you actually want to go meet girls from country x. I arranged my trip before I ever spoke to any of these girls. That way I could post the dates for my trip and the region I'd be visiting. If you don't see yourself taking a week or two to go and actually visit this is too expensive. 2. Once you've arranged your visit, just send introduction emails to most women you're interested in, informing them of the dates of your visit. Better still once you've finalized the list of ladies you'd like to meet, send the top ten or so an email giving them a heads up that you've requested a meeting. Me I've only kept in touch with two ladies extensively on the site, even though I've sent letters to probably a dozen or so. My trip is in two weeks, so although I may change my opinion by then I have a good feeling about it, and thought I would go ahead and write a positive review as a thanks to foreignladies.com for the opportunity they've afforded me and their exceptional customer service.